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The Re-Entry Process & My New Intentions

January 5, 2017 By Caroline Peterson

After nearly every international trip and cultural exchange, I go through this re-entry type-process back into my daily routine. It’s more than reverse culture shock, this is walking back into your routine with new a perspective, an appreciation for the things you have and a mental note of what’s truly important and needed in your life. In my post-vacation glow, I yearn to not get sucked back into my mundane routine of just “trying to get through the day.”

Cuba, oh you guys, Cuba taught me so much. Not that other countries and experiences haven’t, they all have offered their own, unique perspectives. But, Cuba…

I was without any sort of social media connection for 5 days. Lies. I signed into FitBit and used 3MB so I could join my weekly Workweek Hustle Challenge with friends because I knew I’d have tons of steps walking around Havana. Oh, and maybe I signed into FB once too. Basically, I just cost myself $14 for 7MB of data use in Cuba. Mad problems.

After 5 days, when I got back, I didn’t want to sift through hundreds of emails. I didn’t want to check into work. I didn’t want to see how many Likes something got. I had no desire to “keep up” with the daily trends because, guess what, I survived without it! The earth still revolved around the sun without me checking to see if a project I busted my ass for had client feedback yet.

I know this seems petty and perhaps super first world problems (although, I hate that phrase after traveling to more than a few third world countries), but the first step in addiction is admitting you have a problem, right?

I need to shift things around and it’s going to start right meow. 

Sometimes, after trips, I go through Facebook, Twitter and Instagram and unfollow anyone or anything that doesn’t add value to my life, doesn’t educate or motivate me in some way, shape or form. Additionally, I also seek out to learn more about the places I just set foot in, so I’ll follow those accounts.

But, I want to do something more and now is the time of year people start making resolutions. But here’s the thing, I’d rather not have them be resolutions, but be more-so like cutting the chord to shit that doesn’t represent me but just fills an empty void. 

Rip that mundane Band-Aid off. 

I’m riding Cloud 9 after an incredible vacation where I learned so much and I want to make sure it continues. So, here it goes.

Operation: Achieve Lifestyle Shift

 

Actually use my Rosetta Stone and improve my Spanish

I could not believe the Spanish that came out of the cobwebs of my brain while we were in Cuba. The same happened in Spain. My Spanish teachers would have been both proud (and maybe a bit embarrassed – conjugating is hard!) I want to ride this post-Cuba wave and really soak up the 2nd language that I know, at least well enough to hold a decent conversation.

Stop recording Bravo & MTV reality TV shows

This is perhaps, sadly, the biggest change for me. I updated my DVR settings and deleted reoccurring series. It was that simple. Some people are often surprised that I watch these mindless TV shows, but I do and I don’t want it to take up any of my time anymore. They are great for getting your mind off the day, but perhaps I should focus more on making sure I don’t need a day to get my mind off of?

Read more at night and/or in the morning

My sister gave me an actual book for Christmas. Like a book with a spine that you open up and can smell the pages. I have’t had one in years because of my Kindle. It’s been great! I want to learn more about Cuba’s history and Japan’s obsession with cats and Korea’s love/hate relationship with the US. They have these wonderful things called books for that!

Make my blog a top priority

Guess what takes a backseat when I get busy? Oh, that’s right, this here bloggy-poo. It’s so, so, so common amongst bloggers with full-time jobs. But if I ever hope to make a living off my writing or this site, I need to show more, do more and share more. Which leads me to the next item.

Do not feel chained to my desk

I rarely take a lunch break. In Q4, I rarely left before 7. As many people in marketing know, that’s the name of the game when the time calls, especially as a copywriter. But now it’s a new year and I’m going to make it a priority to have a better work/life balance and go eat my lunch at the damn beach at least once a week, okay?

Realize that people are sometimes just shitty people.

Stop trying to assign intentions to their behavior or make excuses for them. Some people are just self-centered and will somehow make the conversation about themselves. Some people are not really interested in listening to you. Some people will only talk, text, visit, call or write when it’s convenient for them. Some people are just hurt and behave like aholes. I need to accept this more and move on.

So, muchas gracias, Cuba! Here’s to a more intention-filled life.

Do you ever experience a reawakening after traveling? What about your New Year resolutions?

 

Filed Under: Cuba, Health, Mental Health, North America, Travel

Cuba: Ready Or Not, Here We Come!

December 29, 2016 By Caroline Peterson

As you know, I’m a pretty good little planner. I like having my ducks in a row when I travel. Not every moment of every trip planned, just documents ready, arrangements made and bags packed in Tetris-like fashion.

Cuba is probably the one country I’ve traveled to that having that planner personality is key. Except, of course, this the one time I haven’t exactly donned my Type-A hat.

Crap.

It’s been a crazy Q4 at work, absolutely the busiest, most exhausting time I’ve had at my job in the last 4 years. Combine that with traveling to see the hubster, family, a wedding and well…Cuba took a back seat.

Xanax, now please.

The following is an except from my brain currently:

Since our American credit and debit cards will not work in Cuba, we needed to figure out just how much cash to bring in order to exchange it. It took a lot of back and forth between the 4 of us on what we felt comfortable with based on conflicting information from friends and online. We didn’t want to be without cash (duh) but too much and it we’d be left with CUCs and no place to exchange them back.

You have to remember, Cuba is a third world country that still has sanctions against it from the US. Information seemingly changes weekly.

We knew we needed a tourist card (visa) that we could get at our boarding gate, but we heard just yesterday that we also needed medical insurance. Some places said to buy it separately and some places said to check your airline. Literally within the last 3 months, airlines now include your medical insurance fee with the cost of your flight. So as long as you have your boarding pass with you in Cuba, it serves as proof of medical insurance. Phew.

I still need to buy extra travel insurance, for my electronic valuables.

Which reminds me, I need to back up all my stuff: computer, iphone, photos, etc.

Which reminds me, I need to activate my SIM card.

But shit, AT&T still hasn’t sent me confirmation they’ve unlocked my phone!

SEE! I’m leaving in 2 days and still finalizing stuff for CUBA. This would be slightly better if I were heading to Japan or even Mexico, but Cuba feels like so much more because so little is known about American tourists there.

AH.

<insert Xanax now>

Do I pack that extra dress? (NO!)

Will my SIM work, will I have service in case of an emergency?

I heard the taxi drivers were on strike. How much would a taxi even cost?

I need to pack my protein bars so I don’t get hangry in case the customs line takes 2 hours like I’ve heard. Protecting my marriage and preventing hanger, go hand-in-hand.

Feliz Año Neuvo.

Feliz Año Neuvo.

Feliz Año Neuvo.

I promise myself I’m going to say Happy New Year in Spanish to someone while I’m there. Gotta talk myself into it.

I’ve printed enough maps and restaurants and monuments and emergency phone numbers to kill at least 3 trees.

We all got upgraded on our flight to Havana, so that’s exciting. I’m sure we’ll annoy half of first class with our giddy antics, but whatever, those people need to loosen up their bluetooth ear pieces anyway.

If we get upgraded on the way back, how will I know? No wi-fi. Do I have to wait in line at the airport. THE HORROR.

Girlfriends fly in today. Hubster flies in tomorrow. Nail appts made for tomorrow. Prosecco is ready in the fridge.

I think I’m good, right?

Right.

Oh, I haven’t seen the hubster in over a month. This is the longest we’ve ever gone without seeing each other.

Must make time for major make-out session. 

Adios, mis amigos!

Filed Under: Cuba, North America, Travel, Travel Prep

I’m Going To Cuba!

December 8, 2016 By Caroline Peterson

You may remember, I contemplated going to Cuba last year on my first solo trip. While the US-Cuba traveling restrictions certainly improved, things were still a bit too unpredictable at that point with getting into Cuba that I didn’t feel confident in it. I knew it would ease up soon, but not soon enough for that trip.

So when we saw the regulations essentially lifted and US carriers now have the ability to fly to Cuba, I jumped at the chance to go with my two numbnut-travel gal pals AND the hubster. Yes, this timed perfectly with one of his few weeks off of work as a first year ER resident. Boo-yah.

So what do we do in the land of mojitos?

I have no idea.

Lies.

Travel Docs

Prior to boarding our flight, we must obtain a tourist card (should cost $25-50USD) which will specify what our itinerary is for the length of the stay and allow us to choose one of 12 reasons why we’re going. While I hear it’s not totally stringent, authority scares me, soooo I’ll be abiding by the rules. I need to carry my passport and tourist card with me at all times. The tourist card also serves as proof we have medical insurance too, since it is included in the fee to get one. We have a tour planned for nearly every day and an idea of what were doing for the days we’re not. This sort of stipulation doesn’t intimidate me much. When I traveled on a student visa while interning in the UK, there were similar obligations that needed to be met so I could stay longer than the normal 30-day tourist visa.

Accommodations

It’s a quick trip—5 days, 4 nights. I booked our flights through Delta. Yup, again, American carriers can now fly there. It’s a quick flight from where I live—1.5 hours to Cuban cigars and classic cars. We’re staying in Havana the whole time and doing a day trip to Las Terrazas for one morning and afternoon. I booked our stay through AirBnb because all decent hotels were already booked for New Years.

Oh yeah.

Minor detail. I’m going over New Years! We’ll say PISS OFF to 2016 and wholeheartedly welcome in 2017 on an island we were forbidden to be on as Americans a little less than 2 years ago.

Money

American credit cards still won’t work there, so you need to exchange money on arrival and pay for everything in Cuban Convertible Peso or CUC. Exchanging US Dollars incurs a lot more fees than other currencies, so we’ll be exchanging Euros to avoid those penalties. Ah, the benefits of having friends who travel for work all the time and are currently in Czech Republic.

Internet

From what I hear, there is very little internet, let alone Wi-Fi. So while the hubster is looking forward to disconnecting, I’m having a minor panic attack.

But how do I prove I’m in Cuba if I can’t check-in on Facebook!?

We actually need to print out maps or use that funny service we pay for called AAA and get maps! I need to make sure I have all the phone numbers I need because I can’t Google on the spot. My phone will be on roaming, so I’ll try to avoid it.

Actually, I’m sure it will be refreshing. I want to share with you how we booked our flights and landed our sweet AirBnb penthouse, but I’d like to actually get there and explore our laid-out itinerary before I offer it up as the best advice.

Can you pick up what I’m throwing down?

 

What are you most interested in seeing from a land that has not been overrun by American tourists yet?

Filed Under: Cuba, North America, Travel, Travel Prep

My First All-Inclusive Resort: The Hyatt Zilara Cancun Review

April 22, 2016 By Caroline Peterson

It’s official—I like going to all-inclusive resorts more than taking a cruise, especially after staying at the Hyatt Zilara Cancun. I know, how flippant of me to rank such fun options. But, it’s true. Hands down, an all-inclusive resort is infinitely better to me than cruising. I almost wrote cursing, which, as we know, is my all-time favorite thing to do.

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The Hyatt Zilara Cancun in all its glory

 

Why We Chose The Hyatt Zilara Cancun

It’s an adults-only resort. ’nuff said. Jokes. Our pals that we went with, who have an adorable son, wanted a nice break from kiddo watching. They found this place and I saw I could use my Hyatt points. So, I was sold quicker than you could say, “One margarita on the rocks with salt, please!”

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How To Get There

We used British Airways Avios miles to book our American Airlines flight from Miami to Cancun. I transferred 18,000 points from my Chase Ultimate Rewards account to British Airways. British Airways is an American Airlines partner, and since Miami is an American hub, it was perfect. I only paid for our taxes for these flights, as you’ll see at the end of this post.

Prior to arriving in Cancun, I booked a reservation with the local transportation company USA Transfers. I highly recommend them; they were on time, professional and friendly. You pay in USD when you get there, so come with $55 (plus tips) if you’re booking roundtrip.

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Look at that water!

 

Which Rooms To Choose

Honestly, you can’t really go wrong with any of the rooms in this resort. They all face the ocean. That said, I would take rooms on the 4th level and above because that means you won’t be in any rooms that are connected to the huge open lobby. It can get quite loud. We were on the 4th floor and didn’t hear much once the door was shut. Plus, I always travel with ear plugs.

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Our balcony on the 4th floor. Heaven.

 

They may try to sell you on preferred rooms, but if you’re a Hyatt member you’ll most likely get upgraded. As a Hyatt Platinum, we got upgraded to a high level room without having to ask. Even so, these rooms all have ocean views and balconies. It only matters if you want a walk-out room with your own private pool that you’ll pay beaucoup bucks for. Plus, I don’t think I’d like being on the first floor for that. I feel it’s not as private and you can’t walk around your room neeeeekid singing to the Spice Girls.

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Hyatt Zilara Premium Ocean View Junior Suite King

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That’s my husband. In the shower. Yes, there’s a little window to scare the shit out of your significant other. Or spy.

 

Additionally, if you’re a Hyatt Platinum or Diamond you get special wristbands for premium service and liquor. As Platinums, I didn’t necessarily notice a difference in the service because everyone was always friendly and quick. Plus, you can just ask for the premium liquor if you don’t have a special wrist band and get it for free.

Each room comes with a “magic box,” which means you’ll then be singing Fifty Cent’s “Magic Stick” each time you pass it because you’re really 13 years old. Anywho, the magic box is a small cabinet that has a door on both the inside and outside of your room. If you want more pillows, tequila, chicken fingers, soda, etc., it will most likely be put in there for you to enjoy. We ordered more beer once and it was delivered on a cart because we were in the room, but when we were out, the magic box was used for our request for more pillows.

The magic box to the left of the door a The Hyatt Zilara Cancun.
The magic box to the left of the door at The Hyatt Zilara Cancun.

 

What To Do There

Sleep. Eat. Drink. Repeat.

We didn’t do any excursions because we were only there for 4 days and 3 nights. We did go to the central market where we haggled for things we didn’t need. That’s quite an experience. Be prepared to be heckled at each store to come in and see what they have. I even got told, “Nice boobies.” as I walked by one store. Which promptly made me turn around and give him the middle finger salute. I mean, they are nice. But you don’t need to shout it, man.

Hyatt Zilara Cancun

We also took the complimentary bike tour offered by the Hyatt Zilara Cancun. It was a nice little morning jaunt through town. I’d recommend it to do one of the first days you’re there to give you a idea of the lay of the land.

The hubster and my gal pal went parasailing too and said it was worth it. They have great photos and GoPro footage.

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Basically, just relax. Enjoy a good book, some Latin tunes and the laughter from your significant other and friends. Perfection.

Hyatt Zilara Cancun

Where To Eat

The point of an all-inclusive is to eat at the resort. There is a great selection of restaurants at the Hyatt Zilara. Truly, you can’t go wrong. Our friends didn’t enjoy the Mexican restaurant called Maria Marie prior to us arriving. We didn’t get a chance to try it out, so I can’t personally say it’s good or bad.

We enjoyed Spice, which is the buffet restaurant. It’s not a buffet like you’re thinking—it’s incredible. I’m pretty picky with warmed-over food at buffets and this was great! In the mornings, they had an omelette and taco station that they would make for you. Lots of fresh fruit, cheese, bread, seafood, etc. In the evenings there was typically a theme they would promote like American BBQ, Latin, etc. We didn’t have a thing that we didn’t like.

Pelicano’s, which is the outdoor restaurant by the pool has great lunches. I highly recommend the shrimp tacos.

Asiana, the Asian fusion restaurant, offers both a hibachi-style dinner and regular lunches and dinners in the restaurant. We did both and really recommend the hibachi-style dinner. You’ll need to make a reservation for it when you get there.

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Before our dinner at Asiana on our last night.

 

What to Drink

  • The Electric Lemonade with Grey Goose. Thank me later.
  • The Julisco. If you like tequila, try it.
  • Any tequila each bartender recommends, they all have their favorites.

How Much We Spent

  • 18,000 British Airways Avios + $150.10 in fuel surcharges and taxes
  • $55 Roundtrip Airport transportation
  • 50,000 Hyatt Gold Passport Points (2 nights) + $489.24 (1 night)

Total: $694.34 (total for 2 people, 4 days/3 nights)

This obviously excludes tips and that random beaded wallet I had to have after a few margaritas. Since those costs depend on each person, I didn’t include it in total costs here.

Tips for staying at The Hyatt Zilara Cancun

  • All rooms have a view of the ocean. Junior Suites are on lower levels (2-3), Premium Ocean View (4-7) and Oceanfront Junior Suites (2-8, ends of the resorts) are on higher levels.
  • Tip in US Dollars or Pesos. And yes, tip. It’s not required, but they work really hard! We spent about $20/day in tips.
  • Take the complimentary bike tour offered in the mornings and afternoons on certain days at the resort. It gives you a good idea of what’s around Cancun.
  • You’ll need to play the “reserved chairs” game if you want chairs or a cabana poolside. We tended to get up early enough to throw some of our personal items on some chairs. Some beachside cabanas are already reserved based on room type. But we never had a problem getting one and didn’t mind being on the beach. The poolside ones are tougher to get because the swim up bar is there. Ole! Oh and don’t be the douche who leaves your stuff there and then takes a full-day excursion tour. Use your chair if you’re going to reserve it. 
  • Bring your own sunscreen (if you’re checking a bag) because it costs about triple the price there.
  • They have shows each night at 8pm in the lobby. Grab a drink at the lobby bar and enjoy. They are a fun treat.
  • If you’re up too early for breakfast or going to bed too late for dinner, there’s 24-hour room service and a lounge downstairs that will satisfy your munchies.
  • Dinner reservations are required for Chef’s Plate (we didn’t do this) and Asiana’s Teppanyaki table (we did do this – it was great!)
  • Make your dinner reservations when you arrive as they fill up quickly. You can always rearrange a time or cancel if need-be.
  • Mini-bars in each room are stocked with alcohol. And food. But free alcohol!
  • If you want to upgrade your suite, and there’s availability, it’s often a better deal to do it once you’re there.
  • Free Wi-Fi is available throughout the resort, so you can post as many obnoxious pictures of your relaxed-self as you want.

Hyatt Zilara Cancun

Have you ever stayed at an All-Inclusive? What was your experience like? We had so much fun at The Hyatt Zilara Cancun, we’re going back…very soon! Stay tuned!

Filed Under: Mexico, North America, Travel, Travel Hacking

Adios, Bitchachos! My First All-Inclusive Experience Begins.

February 25, 2016 By Caroline Peterson

I’m leaving on a jet plane for Cancun this weekend. My first time in Mexico. My first time at an all-inclusive.

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(Not my first rodeo with beergaritas.)

My Type-A planner mind isn’t quite sure what to do. I haven’t felt it necessary to look up the best restaurants or bars because, well, I’ve got that in unlimited quantities at our hotel. Olé! I briefly looked at excursions but we are truly only there for 4 days and 3 nights. I’m okay with every moment not being planned for the sake…the sake of…relaxing?

WTF is happening to me?!

Quick someone give me a To Do list before I lose my mind.

I am adequately prepared with obnoxious beach apparel though that can only be described as…Floridian. Basically, imagine the colors pink, peach, coral, yellow, aqua and lime green all throw up on maxi dresses and flowy tops.

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Boom, nailed it. Living in Florida for nearly 4 years has paid off! (I really did buy this dress. Cute, right?)

Debating on bringing my laptop to catch up on some blog posts and post pictures. I’m sure the hubster will be thrilled with that idea. <side eye>

I guess that’s really it? I’m not sure what to expect, so I don’t have many expectations, which I suppose is the best way to go on trips. If the food sucks I won’t be very aware because I haven’t been to an all-inclusive before. Plus, I’m sure soggy cheetos will taste good to me after a few frozen piña coladas. What? Stop judging. The resort is right on the beach and each room is a suite with an ocean view, so if I somehow manage to complain about that, you have full permission to slap my ass. You’re required to enjoy it though. It’s a good bum.

Adios, bitchachos!

Have you ever been to an all-inclusive? Where and how did you like it?

Filed Under: Mexico, North America, Travel, Travel Prep

2016 Travel Plans

February 9, 2016 By Caroline Peterson

February: Cancun, Mexico

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Yup, you read that right. I’m finally letting go of the planning reigns and doing an all-inclusive resort for the very first time. We’re using points to fly and stay there. Duh. (Less one night paid in cash, so I can earn some points). A couple of our pals were planning on going to Cancun and asked us if we wanted to go. They were looking at the Hyatt Zilaria, which is an adults-only Resort.

You only have to say, “adults-only,” once for me to say, “MARGARITA!” I mean, I love your kids, I swear. Just not when they are playing Marco Polo for the umpteenth time.

 

March, April or May: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

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The hubster has to take an exam in Philadelphia in order to graduate medical school. Much to his personality, he hasn’t planned when he’s taking it yet. Much to my personality, I want to know dates so I can see if I’m able to tag along. Go ahead, hubster. Take your exam. I’ll be over here high-fiving Ben Franklin and ringing The Liberty Bell.

We’ll see. Schedules have to permit.

Fun fact: I used to live in near Philly as a youngster.

 

June: Southeast Asia

Help us take more smiling pics like this! Railay Beach, Thailand

Remember that trip we had to cancel? (I hope putting in on here doesn’t jinx it.) We’re going to try to do it again this year, but probably revamp the itinerary a bit. Even after I had to cancel, I felt we probably would have been too rushed on that trip and that notion sat with me for a while. Enough to make me rethink what we’d do with 2 weeks this time around.

I’m still debating about which countries to visit…stay tuned. Our flights there and back have been booked, using points of course!

 

July – beyond: No clue

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The hubster will officially be a doctor after May. I can’t believe it. I mean, I can, he’s fucking smart. But it’s been one long, tough road. I’ve supported this guy as he busted his ass to go back to school, just so he could get into med school and then, you know, go through the rigors that happen in med school.

So, after this summer, there may not be much traveling going on except maybe to visit each other when he starts his emergency medicine residency. More on that later.

So, those are my travel plans. What do you think? Share yours!

Filed Under: Asia, Japan, Korea, Mexico, North America, Travel, Travel Prep

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